Keep Communicating
The two of you need to keep the channels of communication open more than ever. You will be each other’s safest place during this difficult time. Remember to do the following: A: Imagine if someone tells you there is a more than 90 percent chance that things will turn out well. That sounds pretty good. On the other hand, if someone tells you there is a 10 percent chance that things will turn out badly, that doesn’t sound too great. But they describe the exact same probability! It’s always worthwhile to think positively. In fact, some people believe that a positive attitude enhances your immune system and will actually increase your chances of a full recovery.
Keep Having Fun
Even though you might not be able to go to a movie or out to dinner every week, the two of you need to keep having fun together. Set aside time just for the two of you to be alone together without any interruptions. There are many things that you can do to have fun, even if you don’t have much energy. Here are some things to try:
Play a board or card game. Buy a box of markers and draw some colorful pictures together. Rent a classic movie and watch it together. Read a book aloud to each other, one chapter at a time.
