Cleanliness—A habit of keeping clean. Compassion—Deep awareness of the suffering of another coupled with the wish to relieve it. Courage—The state of mind that enables one to face danger or fear with confidence. Friendliness—A state of being likeable to another person, enjoyment in their company. Honesty—The quality or state of being truthful. Integrity—Moral soundness; honesty; freedom from corrupting influence. Kindness—The quality of being warm-hearted, considerate, humane, and sympathetic. Perseverance—Steady persistence in adhering to a course of action or a purpose. Promptness—Being on time, punctual. Responsibility—The state, quality, or fact of being accountable.

When you have a handle on which values you find most important for yourself, go back and make another list of the values you want your child to have. List the reasons you want your child to have each value, and how you feel he will benefit. Once you have clearly defined what you want your child to learn from you, it will be easier to find a course of action in your day-to-day life.