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Conservation: Outward Appearance Less Important Eminent psychologist Jean Piaget (1896-1980) theorized that until around age 6, children lack a clear understanding of how two things with different outward appearances might actually be the same. In a classic study, Piaget poured liquid from a tall, thin glass into a thick, short glass right in front of their eyes. Younger children thought the liquid became a smaller amount simply because the liquid’s outward appearance changed....

Materialistic Children Have Less Supportive Parents In a study of tweens and teens, parents who were emotionally unsupportive had more materialistic children than supportive parents. By support, we’re talking about the ability for the parent to talk to, encourage, and be there for their child in good and bad times. Self-esteem is the key to understanding this finding. You can teach them the value of relationships by paying them with your time, energy, and interests....

Other babies are sleepy, especially in the very early days, so you may have to wake your baby up to breastfeed. All of these patterns are normal. As long as your child is getting enough breast milk and growing well, you don’t have to worry. Here are some guidelines for how often to breastfeed your newborn. Nurse on Demand The recommended way to feed your breastfed baby is on demand....

It’s important to respond in a manner that will deter your teen from doing it again. Clearly, you never want your teen to speak to a future employer, romantic partner, or friend with the same level of disrespect. How to Respond to Swearing in a Productive Manner Whether your teen blew up because you said they couldn’t go out with their friends or they’re angry because you told them to clean their room, swearing at you is clearly unacceptable....

Studies have shown that bullying aggravates depression and increases suicide risk for both the victim and the perpetrator. Suicide is a complex issue. Often, but not always, there are other factors related to teen suicide such as pre-existing affective disorders, childhood trauma, or severe nutritional deficiencies. Still, because bullying can be a catalyst for suicide, its significance should not be overlooked. When kids who are at risk for suicide because of depression or other mental health issues are bullied, the results can be disastrous....

Researching your state’s pregnancy protection laws, your company’s policies, and the family and medical leave laws in your state ahead of time may help you feel more prepared for what lies ahead. Here are some tips for how to share the news of your pregnancy at work. Know Your Benefits Before you drop the big news, be sure that you are prepared with knowledge about your company’s family leave policy and which family and medical leave laws apply to you....

Is a Belly-Only Pregnancy Possible? Yes, a belly-only pregnancy is possible, and for someone already in great physical shape, a great goal, but don’t stress if you gain some extra pounds. Pregnancy weight gain is normal, expected, and healthy. Different body types gain and store fat in certain areas of the body. The most important goal is to gain a healthy amount of weight, about 25-35 pounds, and keep your body trim and fit....

More: Watch Out Helicopter Parents, Lawnmower Parenting Is Here As parents on the sidelines, we want our children to do well and to do their best, but lines are crossed when parents begin yelling at the referee or umpire and screaming at the players. It can be very uncomfortable for parents who do not take part in this behavior, and it is hard to know exactly how to handle these situations....

Many boys have exactly two speeds when it comes to emotion: They are “okay,” or they are “angry.” Many parents are shocked at how quickly their sons become belligerent, but it should come as no surprise. Anger is culturally acceptable for boys (and men) and creates its own set of problems. More: Anger: The Acceptable Male Emotion The Struggle to Express Emotion In I Don’t Want to Talk about It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression, psychotherapist Terrence Real, L....

If you don’t happen to have the necessary resources to pay for IVF outright, the high price tag may feel like a dead end. “Sadly, this reality prompts some people to give up on their baby dreams,” says Leslie Van Everly, head of content & communications at Future Family, a San Francisco-based online company offering fertility financing for IVF. Others may scrape together the necessary funds, borrow the money from family, friends, or banks, or put it all on a credit card and hope for the best, says Van Everly....

Whether you opt for a nanny, daycare, the help of a friend or family, or some combination of them all, it’s important to do your research and make sure your child will be getting the best care to suit their specific needs. You are likely already looking for caregivers that are warm, compassionate, and responsible. However, there are some additional qualities that you may want to consider if you have a child with a disability or chronic condition....

In fact, some school districts even provide free tutoring options. This is especially important if your child is struggling in school or has learning disabilities. But do you know how to find these free and low-cost tutoring options? Find out everything you need to know to find low-cost tutoring services for your child. Benefits of Tutoring When it comes to tutoring, there are many reasons a parent might want to find a tutor for their student....

Getting enough sleep and being well-rested is particularly crucial for school-age kids. Without enough sleep, they can experience trouble concentrating, paying attention, and learning. Lack of sleep can also affect kids’ moods, physical development, and even their ability to fight off illness and infections. Set a Bedtime Try to keep bedtime consistent, even on the weekends and during the summer. It can be hard to get kids to bed by 8 p....

For instance, complaints about overstepping boundaries are common. Whether it’s a grandparent inadvertently undermining a parent’s decision such as allowing a child dessert after a parent has said no or monopolizing special firsts like taking a child for their first haircut without the parents’ knowledge, it’s easy for grandparents to overstep without even realizing it. Overview For most families, breaching boundaries only occurs on occasion but when it’s not addressed, it can become an issue that causes conflict....

However, preterm babies may require special considerations. Parents should hold off on solid foods before their preemie is ready. When introducing solids to preemies, consider your baby’s corrected age rather than their actual age. When to Introduce Solids Most full term babies are ready to begin solid foods around 6 months of age, but if your baby is a preemie, the timing of when to introduce solids is important. You have to consider their delayed early gross motor skills, their nutritional requirements, organ immaturity, increased gut permeability, and increased risk of infections....

If you’ve made your own baby food before, such as a banana purée, you might have experienced some discoloration after freezing and thawing it. Homemade baby food turning brown is a common scenario that occurs in fruits and vegetables (some more than others). You should know that browning isn’t indicative of a dangerous batch of baby food—it just means that the process of oxidation has created a browning. When food is puréed, there is more surface area to be affected by oxidation....

While some wear their baby-making scars with pride, others feel self-conscious about them. Rapidly stretching skin can also be uncomfortable, adding one more thing to your growing list of pregnancy aches and pains. If you do want to prevent stretch marks, keeping your skin hydrated so that it can stretch without breaking is your best defense. It may not be possible to completely eliminate them, but you can reduce stretch marks....

Estrangement doesn’t always last forever, though. A research project between the UK’s University of Cambridge and the non-profit organization, Stand Alone, found that estrangement from fathers was the most common, and that it tends to last an average of almost eight years. Estrangement between brothers tends to last seven and a half years, while between sisters it averages seven years. Estrangement between mothers and their adult children averages five and a half years....

There are two basic categories of zygosity when it comes to twins: identical (or monozygotic) and fraternal (or dizygotic). Identical twins aren’t just two individuals that look alike. They result from a single egg-sperm combination that split into two. Monozygotic multiples are similar because they share the same genetic origin. Fraternal twins are correctly described as dizygotic, the result of multiple egg-sperm combinations. Their genetic similarities are the same as any siblings born separately....

This can be especially true with the flu, where fevers often run high and congestion can impact your child’s ability to breathe. And when your young child can’t effectively communicate to you how they are feeling, it can feel impossible to know how to best help them. It also may have you wondering when you should call their healthcare provider. Ahead, experts share some best practices for treating your child’s flu and keeping them comfortable....