Discuss Kindergarten In the weeks before school begins, discuss kindergarten with your child. Express enthusiasm and excitement at all she is going to learn. Try to evoke responses from your child to see how she may be feeling. Don’t overdo it and don’t force the topic, if your child is not interested or seems unwilling to discuss it. The main idea is to make kindergarten something exciting to look forward to, rather than something to fear. Try Time Away from You Before your child starts school, you can gauge how he deals with separation anxiety with a trial run. Try leaving him with a relative or close family friend, or suggest a sleepover at Grandma’s house. See how your child reacts to being without you in a safe and supervised environment. Set Up Playdates Many schools distribute phone lists for each class of students before the school year begins. If you have such a list, try setting up playdates with your child’s future classmates. That way, when your child walks into class on the first day, she’ll see some familiar faces - her new friends.