In addition to the size of your belly causing discomfort during sex, some women experience pain during sex toward the end of pregnancy as the baby moves farther into the pelvis; or they may find that the contractions that can accompany orgasm become increasingly uncomfortable. These symptoms are unlikely to be a cause for concern, but it’s worth mentioning them to your doctor for reassurance. There are some circumstances in late pregnancy when intercourse may not be safe. This can be the case if you’ve had a previous premature labor or risk factors for premature labor, such as a weak cervix, or if you have placenta previa , or leakage of amniotic fluid, which can mean your water has broken. If you have any concerns, don’t be afraid to ask your doctor for advice. Being able to enjoy sex in pregnancy will help you and your partner feel close during this time of transition. Indeed, psychologists have found that couples who enjoy sex in pregnancy are more tender toward each other and communicate better after the birth.
Talk to each other about your feelings and be aware that, for both of you, levels of interest may fluctuate.If your belly makes some positions uncomfortable, experiment with alternative ones that accommodate your size, such as side-by-side, rear entry, or woman-on-top positions.Enjoy other ways to maintain intimacy besides intercourse, such as touching and massage.
