Your baby is in an impossible position: They want to suck because of its soothing effects, but they doesn’t want to suck because it causes them pain. As a result, your teething child may lose some of his appetite for nursing (or bottle-feeding)-and maybe for solid foods, too. If they do drink from the breast or bottle, your baby may stop short and then start again many times. Try not to worry. Once the tooth has cut through the surface, their appetite will return. Because sucking doesn’t do the trick, you have to try something else to relieve the pressure on your baby’s gums. Teethers, especially cold ones, are likely to offer your baby some much-needed comfort. By biting down on a teether, your baby can balance the pressure from under the gums. Cold teethers have the added benefit of numbing the gums to extend the relief. Any of the following items make great teethers:
A teething ring, especially one designed with a gel inside that cools when stored in a refrigerator A hard, smooth toy with no pieces that might break off A toothbrush A bagel A frozen banana Something cold to eat An ice cube A cold, wet washcloth A small piece of ice wrapped inside a washcloth
Your baby will also find their own “teethers”: So try not to get angry with your baby. If you must, say (but don’t shout), “Ow!” Then gently but firmly draw them away from your breast. Look into their eyes as you tell them, “No biting!” Then return them to the breast if he’s still interested. (Be patient. It may take more than one lesson for your message to sink in.)
The handle of a rattle The railing of his crib or playpen An unsuspecting relative’s finger Their mother’s breast
If none of these teethers work for your baby, try rubbing the tooth and/or gum firmly with your own finger. (You may want to dip your finger in ice water first to chill it.) Consult your pediatrician before using liquid acetaminophen (or any other medication) to ease pain associated with teething. The first teeth, which are always the front ones, are not for chewing, but rather for biting. But although your baby won’t use these teeth to chew, they still start to chew food around the time their first teeth come in. Even before the molars start coming in, your baby learns to chew using just his gums. Actually, your baby probably started to practice chewing on toys at around three or four months. But by five or six months, he needs food to practice on, too. Again, watch your baby carefully whenever he’s chewing on anything. If they swallow something without chewing it thoroughly, they may start to choke.
